It seems like everyone in the world is giving sexting a try. Parents on Dateline cry about their teens sending nudes, politicians resign over sexting scandals, and the iCloud leak that released celebrities' nudes into the world is still on everyone's mind.
If that's the case, why is it so hard to find someone to sext with?
Here's the secret: you're probably not looking in the right places. Mainstream dating apps are filled with people looking to fall in love or hook up. Most of them aren't interested in sending dirty messages.
If you want to find sexters, you've got to think like a sexter. There are a few sites where people who love sexting congregate, and that's where you want to be looking for your next sexting buddy.
We've got the inside scoop on each of the hottest sexting sites for 2019. Check out our quick bites, and click on the links if you want to read our in-depth reviews.
Show of hands: who hates bots?
If you aren't raising your hand, either you're a liar, or you haven't figured out that the last three girls you matched with on Tinder are all bots controlled by the same dude in Indiana.
Spoiler alert: real girls on Tinder put more on their profile than "ooh your so hot."
Bots are the worst part of every dating site. You think you've finally gotten a cute girl to match with you when she hits you with that link that will infect your computer with 12 different viruses at once.
What I love about Fuckr is that, unlike a lot of similar sites, it has actual human profiles instead of bots.
When I messaged hot babes, they responded like actual people instead of repeating the same 3 canned phrases over and over. It was a refreshing change from most dating sites.
Plus, the people on the site are all ready to get dirty at a moment's notice. I had the greatest sexting conversations of my life, and all I had to do was keep the conversation going.
It's up to you whether you want your sexting to be the main attraction or just the opening act. But either way, you'll find that your new friends on Fuckr will be down for whatever you throw at them.
The site is super versatile and user-friendly: no matter how technologically helpless you are, you'll find people on Fuckr who have the same goals as you: an easy path to a great night.
One of the biggest struggles with online dating sites is that you have to search through hundreds or thousands of profiles just to find one that you like.
Half the time, you have one or two factors that you're looking for in their profile, and you immediately click the back button as soon as you don't see what you're looking for.
Wouldn't it be nice to be able to filter the profiles through those factors that you care about, so you can cut to the chase of sending messages to your winning candidates?
Get It On lets you do exactly that.
When you make an account, you'll fill out a quick survey that includes both questions about yourself and about your ideal partner. As you're searching through profiles, you can filter results by the answers that people gave to those questions.
You can also filter by any other factor on someone's profile. Allergic to cats? Immediately cross out anyone who's got one of those sneeze machines. Love to smoke? You can look specifically for people who are 420 friendly.
The site also has a compatibility matching algorithm that will pair you with the people you'll be most sexually compatible.
You could find the nicest girl in the world, but if you're looking for a quick hookup and she's looking for a ring on her finger, it's never going to work out.
Plus, if you're looking for something specific in the bedroom (like if you're into kink or looking for a threesome), Get It On will help you find like-minded people to have some fun with.
Get It On will sort through all of their profiles to find the ones that are best for you, making it fast and easy to find sexting partners that fit with your style.
The site also features live webcam chat, ice-breakers questions (in case you're too nervous to think of something to say), and much more.
SpankPal centers around webcam mutual masturbation. You'll get connected with a professional cam model who will talk dirty and touch herself alongside you.
You can choose from six different types of models before beginning a video chat with a girl from your chosen category.
No matter whether you're looking for a Latina, a curvy girl, or a MILF, you'll be paired with a gorgeous woman who's eager to get it on with you through a webcam.
Maybe this doesn't sound too different from watching a porno, but once you've tried it even once, you'll know that it makes such a difference to be able to prompt and respond to a real woman while you're getting off.
All the ladies you'll meet on SpankPal are professional performers--this isn't amateur hour! They've seen and heard it all, so you don't have to worry about weirding them out, no matter how off-the-wall your thing is.
Whatever you're into, these girls will get you from point A to point O with smiles on their faces, and it'll be one of the best orgasms you've ever had.
The site is super easy to use--there's not a lot of clicking around, so you can have both your hands free for other activities once you get the video chat going.
The only downside about SpankPal is that the site isn't super up-front about their pricing. Unlike Fuckr and Get It On, SpankPal doesn't advertise what they charge for a video call.
I like to see the price tag before I decide to buy. But if you like the idea of a video chat circle jerk and have some disposable income to try it out, the site offers an amazing service that's definitely worth checking out.